chick flicks

I’ve been watching too many of these alone in the past several months: The Lake House, Pride and Prejudice, The Last Kiss (I do watch normal movies as well…). And in all of these movies, there’s always some shake up between the lovers or lovers to be. Maybe I miss having a relationship, but sometimes I just think, “God why can’t you guys just work this out, how can it be so hard if you guys love each other so much.” Of course its always easier pointing out all the mistakes people make when you’re calm, thinking rationally, and are seeing things from a 3rd person’s point of view.

The only theme I noticed that tends to cause arguments and fights is when people start to be dishonest towards one another. Things start to go sour when they start to hide things or they’re afraid of telling the other person how they truly feel. Aside from the obvious physical attraction and personality, I think the key things to a succesful relationship are trust, honesty and the willingness to compromise. But then again, I haven’t been in one for over 2 years now, so I could be totally off =P.

On the bright side of things, I think this hiatus has made me learn more about what I want from a relationship, and it has also forced me to put thought into why I will appreciate being in my next one.

Oh and Rachel Bilson is totally hot in The Last Kiss



~ by toekneelc on June 26, 2007.

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